Comments on: Eye Contact During Corporate Worship http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/ — Excellence in Life, Leadership, Worship and the Arts — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 22:24:38 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Phil http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7128 Phil Tue, 05 Jun 2007 19:55:22 +0000 http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7128 Actually it's all linked together! Go for it! I'll be back in a bit with more on this.. good stuff, ladies! Phil— Actually it’s all linked together! Go for it!

I’ll be back in a bit with more on this.. good stuff, ladies!

Phil—

]]> By: Jonell http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7103 Jonell Tue, 05 Jun 2007 16:58:24 +0000 http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7103 Julie, Thanks for the big smile! :-) We may not know until heaven the good that we did just by smiling. God Bless, Jonell Phil - we'll get back to the topic at hand of eye contact and corporate worship, we just took a bunny trail here about smiles and reaching out. Hope you don't mind! :-) Jonell Julie,

Thanks for the big smile! :-) We may not know until heaven the good that we did just by smiling.

God Bless,
Jonell

Phil – we’ll get back to the topic at hand of eye contact and corporate worship, we just took a bunny trail here about smiles and reaching out. Hope you don’t mind! :-)

Jonell

]]> By: Julie http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7083 Julie Tue, 05 Jun 2007 14:29:00 +0000 http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7083 Jonell - You are so right. People crave the attention and focus of others, and eye contact is the means of great ministry. I will never forget an ordinary day several years ago, when I went to my ordinary grocery store, and was getting all the ordinary items on my list, that I rounded the corner, saw an unknown woman, smiled at her in greeting, and then continued on. She turned around, came back to me, and thanked me for smiling at her. She said that she had been having a rough day, and that receiving a smile from someone brightened it. I was the one who received a blessing and a lesson! It is just automatic to me to smile and greet someone that I come in contact with, and yet that ordinary reaction was used to lift someone else. It was a great reminder that we are to be interested in the lives of others -- even those we don't know. Here's a big smile for you :) God Bless, Julie Jonell – You are so right. People crave the attention and focus of others, and eye contact is the means of great ministry. I will never forget an ordinary day several years ago, when I went to my ordinary grocery store, and was getting all the ordinary items on my list, that I rounded the corner, saw an unknown woman, smiled at her in greeting, and then continued on.

She turned around, came back to me, and thanked me for smiling at her. She said that she had been having a rough day, and that receiving a smile from someone brightened it.

I was the one who received a blessing and a lesson! It is just automatic to me to smile and greet someone that I come in contact with, and yet that ordinary reaction was used to lift someone else. It was a great reminder that we are to be interested in the lives of others — even those we don’t know.

Here’s a big smile for you :)
God Bless,

Julie

]]> By: Julie http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7081 Julie Tue, 05 Jun 2007 14:23:18 +0000 http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-7081 One thing that I have noticed in the contemporary music movement, is that praise leaders sometimes hardly ever make eye contact with the congregation. Instead, they are closing their eyes in what is seemingly focus on God throughout the song. That, in itself, is understandable and commendable. However, I have seen it leave the congregation "on their own" many times. I feel like a praise leader's responsibility is to do what they can to bring the congregation along on their way to the Father. It would be better to look at the congregation and share some of that eye contact which indicates the experience of true worship. I hope I'm making sense! I am not saying that praise leaders shouldn't ever shut their eyes or not focus wholly on God --- just that the reason they are "leaders" is to lead the congregation. Maybe I am hanging on to traditional music ministry where the leader is talking to the congregation, smiling, looking into their eyes, and evaluating what can be done to help them enter into worship. It just feels more personable and involving when that happens. To sum it up, I'm thinking that praise leaders can enter into God's presence through song AND bring the congregation along at the same time. Hope I'm not rambling too much!? Have a great day, Julie One thing that I have noticed in the contemporary music movement, is that praise leaders sometimes hardly ever make eye contact with the congregation. Instead, they are closing their eyes in what is seemingly focus on God throughout the song.

That, in itself, is understandable and commendable. However, I have seen it leave the congregation “on their own” many times. I feel like a praise leader’s responsibility is to do what they can to bring the congregation along on their way to the Father. It would be better to look at the congregation and share some of that eye contact which indicates the experience of true worship.

I hope I’m making sense! I am not saying that praise leaders shouldn’t ever shut their eyes or not focus wholly on God — just that the reason they are “leaders” is to lead the congregation.

Maybe I am hanging on to traditional music ministry where the leader is talking to the congregation, smiling, looking into their eyes, and evaluating what can be done to help them enter into worship. It just feels more personable and involving when that happens.

To sum it up, I’m thinking that praise leaders can enter into God’s presence through song AND bring the congregation along at the same time.

Hope I’m not rambling too much!?
Have a great day,

Julie

]]> By: Jonell http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-6938 Jonell Mon, 04 Jun 2007 19:45:03 +0000 http://vibrance.wordpress.com/2007/06/04/eye-contact-during-corporate-worship/#comment-6938 Excellent thoughts - thanks! You wrote: "They reinforce -or dilute- your message, depending on how you carry yourself." I got to thinking about when I'm at the piano that I face the front and nobody really sees my eyes, but they can see me maybe sway a little or lean into the music and know that I'm enjoying myself. Guess that's a bit of non-verbal language. :-) New family at our church. The dad plays on the church softball team and helped some of the guys when they reshingled the church roof a couple weekends ago. Then I realized the next Sunday who the mom was, and what 3 young girls are theirs. I smiled and we've talked a few times. Just Saturday we walked into a family wedding and sitting in the pew was this mom. I was surprised to see her, but I smiled, she smiled, and come to find out her brother in law was a groomsmen in the wedding. We talked a short time at the reception, and when she left, she gave me a hug. I musta done something right! :-) I work at an eye doctor's office and today I checked in a lady who had the same name as my Gma. I said, "I talked to you on the phone when you scheduled your appointment and told you that my Gma's name was Eva as well." She gave me the nicest smile! You are so right that the eye contact and the smiles can change somebody's entire day! :-) - Jonell Excellent thoughts – thanks!

You wrote: “They reinforce -or dilute- your message, depending on how you carry yourself.” I got to thinking about when I’m at the piano that I face the front and nobody really sees my eyes, but they can see me maybe sway a little or lean into the music and know that I’m enjoying myself. Guess that’s a bit of non-verbal language. :-)

New family at our church. The dad plays on the church softball team and helped some of the guys when they reshingled the church roof a couple weekends ago. Then I realized the next Sunday who the mom was, and what 3 young girls are theirs. I smiled and we’ve talked a few times. Just Saturday we walked into a family wedding and sitting in the pew was this mom. I was surprised to see her, but I smiled, she smiled, and come to find out her brother in law was a groomsmen in the wedding. We talked a short time at the reception, and when she left, she gave me a hug. I musta done something right! :-)

I work at an eye doctor’s office and today I checked in a lady who had the same name as my Gma. I said, “I talked to you on the phone when you scheduled your appointment and told you that my Gma’s name was Eva as well.” She gave me the nicest smile!

You are so right that the eye contact and the smiles can change somebody’s entire day! :-)

- Jonell

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